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Biblical Submission in Marriage: Finding Strength, Trust, and Partnership
In today’s culture, the word submission often sounds uncomfortable. It can feel like weakness, loss of independence, or even oppression.
For many of us, especially women who have lived through decades of cultural messages about independence and equality, the idea of submitting to a husband can feel confusing or even threatening.
But what if biblical submission was never meant to diminish us?
What if, instead, it was designed by God to strengthen marriages, deepen trust, and create partnership?
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Wrestling with the Idea of Submission
This topic has been something I have personally struggled with.
I was born in the 1960s, during a time when women’s rights and the fight for equality were strongly championed. That message continued throughout my lifetime. Added to that were my own experiences of feeling powerless, vulnerable, and sometimes mistreated in workplaces and relationships.
Because of this, I developed a strong sense of independence. I valued my freedom to speak my mind and make my own decisions. The idea of yielding authority to anyone felt uncomfortable and even unsafe.
That was my perspective until recently.
When the Holy Spirit Speaks
While attending a Christian school intensive weekend, we spent time praying and asking the Holy Spirit what He wanted to reveal to us.
I was genuinely shocked by what I sensed Him say to me.
I felt prompted to submit to my husband and acknowledge his leadership in our home.
Immediately I felt convicted — but not condemned.
There is a big difference.
When God convicts us, it comes with love and hope. We sense that change is possible and that something better lies ahead.
When the enemy condemns us, we feel shame, despair, and hopelessness.
That distinction helped me recognise whose voice I was hearing.
I publicly apologised to my husband and acknowledged his leadership over our household.
When Doubt Creeps In
Within forty-eight hours, however, doubt began creeping into my mind.
“Did God really say that?”
The question felt strangely familiar.
It is the same question the serpent asked Eve in the garden:
“Did God really say…?”
Genesis 3:1And it echoes the enemy’s challenge to Jesus in the wilderness:
“If you are the Son of God…”
Matthew 4:6Recognising this pattern helped me understand that the enemy often tries to undermine the truth God reveals to us.
A Powerful Insight: Ezer Kenegdo
Around that same time, a friend sent me a reel by Bible teacher Kristi McLelland about the Hebrew phrase Ezer Kenegdo, used in Genesis when God describes creating a helper for Adam.
The phrase means far more than simply “helper.”
It describes someone who aids, strengthens, and supports in ways the other person cannot do alone.
Even more remarkable, the word Ezer is frequently used in Scripture to describe God Himself as the helper of Israel.
God is certainly not inferior to His people.
This insight gave me a powerful realisation:
Being a helper does not mean being less valuable.
It means standing beside someone with strength and purpose.
God’s Design for Marriage
The Bible teaches:
“Wives, be submissive to your own husbands as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, just as Christ is the head and Savior of the church.”
Ephesians 5:22–24At first glance, this can feel difficult to accept.
But Scripture places an even greater responsibility on husbands.
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for it, that He might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, and that He might present to Himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing, but that it should be holy and without blemish. In this way men ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord cares for the church. For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones.
Ephesians 5:25-30 (MEV)Christ gave His life for the church.
That is the model for husbands.
God’s design for marriage is not domination. It is sacrificial love, mutual honour, and partnership.
Discovering an Unexpected Freedom
To my surprise, choosing to honour my husband’s leadership has been incredibly freeing.
I didn’t realise how much responsibility I had been carrying on my own shoulders.
And something interesting happened.
The world did not fall apart.
My husband Peter did not become controlling or domineering. In fact, he continues to value my opinion and discuss decisions with me just as he always has.
But something changed in my heart.
I now prioritise our relationship differently and often speak with him first when making decisions.
Instead of resisting him, I find myself encouraging him.
And I see him growing more fully into the man God created him to be.
Strengthening Rather Than Draining
Looking back, I realised that my fear of vulnerability and my desire to control situations had actually weakened our relationship.
Instead of strengthening my husband, I had often been draining him.
Godly men deserve encouragement and partnership, just as godly women deserve honour and love.
When wives release the need to control everything, they create space for their husbands to grow in their God-given role.
When Relationships Need Healing
If your marriage or relationship is struggling, take heart.
Change is possible.
Invite Jesus into the situation. Ask the Holy Spirit for wisdom and guidance. Speak openly with your spouse about your desire to strengthen your relationship.
You may also find it helpful to seek advice from trusted friends, pastors, or counsellors who model healthy relationships.
Healing often begins with humility and honest conversation.
An Important Note About Safety
If you are experiencing domestic violence, this message does not apply to your situation.
Your safety matters deeply.
Please seek help immediately.
In Australia, you can call 1800 RESPECT or speak with a trusted friend, family member, pastor, or support service.
You do not have to face this alone.
Prayer
Father,
Thank You for Your wisdom and design for relationships. Help us build marriages that reflect Your love, grace, and partnership.
Teach us humility, patience, and mutual honour. Heal areas of hurt and misunderstanding, and strengthen the bond between husbands and wives.
May our homes become places where love, respect, and encouragement flourish.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
Activation
Take a moment today to pray for your marriage.
Ask God:
“Holy Spirit, what step can I take today to strengthen this relationship?”
It may be a conversation, an apology, a word of encouragement, or simply choosing patience.
Small steps can create powerful change.
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God bless you and your family.
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Cultivating Lasting Joy: 5 Biblical Ways to Grow Joy in Your Life
When I look at my grandchildren, I am always struck by how naturally joyful they are.
They laugh easily, find delight in small things, and seem to carry a lightness that many adults gradually lose along the way.
Yet the Bible teaches that joy is not just a childhood emotion. It is something God desires for all of us, a deep, lasting joy that remains even when life is difficult.
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What is the difference between happiness and biblical joy? In this episode we explore how lasting joy can grow in our lives, even during challenging seasons.
Joy Is Different from Happiness
Joy is an interesting emotion because many people confuse it with happiness.
Happiness usually depends on circumstances. When things go well, we feel happy. When circumstances change, happiness can quickly fade.
Joy is different.
Joy comes from a deeper place. It comes from our relationship with God. It can remain steady even when life feels uncertain or difficult.
The Bible reminds us:
“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness.”
James 1:2-4 (ESV)This kind of joy is not based on what is happening around us, but on what God is doing within us.
Joy Is a Fruit of the Spirit
Joy is not something we have to manufacture on our own.
It is actually one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit.
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”
Galatians 5:22–23 (NIV)Notice that joy comes immediately after love in this list. That tells us something important: joy is central to the Christian life.
As we grow closer to God, His Spirit naturally produces joy within us.
A Personal Reflection
If I’m honest, I tend to be quite a serious person.
I sometimes recognise a bit of a “Martha attitude” in myself, always thinking about what needs to be done and focusing on the next task.
Relaxing does not always come easily to me.
But lately I’ve been sensing God encouraging me to slow down, notice His goodness, and cultivate more joy in my life.
Perhaps you feel the same way.
The beautiful thing is that joy can grow in our lives when we intentionally nurture it.
Five Biblical Ways to Cultivate Joy
Here are a few simple practices that can help us develop lasting joy.
1. Practice Gratitude
Start by noticing the blessings in your life.
You might begin by identifying three things you are grateful for each day. Thank God for them and express gratitude to the people who bless you.
Look for new things to be thankful for each day rather than repeating the same list.
Gratitude shifts our focus from what is lacking to what God is already doing.
2. Spend Time in Praise and Worship
Joy grows when we spend time praising God.
This might be through singing worship songs, speaking words of praise, or simply sitting quietly in God’s presence.
Worship lifts our hearts and reminds us of God’s goodness.
3. Reflect on God’s Promises
Reading Scripture reminds us of the faithfulness of God throughout history.
As we read about how God cared for His people, we begin to realise that those promises apply to us as well.
“In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials.”
1 Peter 1:6–7 (NIV)Even in difficult seasons, God is still working in our lives.
4. Share Your Testimony
When we share stories of how God has helped or guided us, it strengthens our own faith and encourages others.
Testimonies remind us of God’s faithfulness and bring renewed hope.
5. Stay Connected to God
Scripture encourages us:
“Let this hope burst forth within you, releasing a continual joy. Don’t give up in times of trouble, but commune with God at all times.”
Romans 12:12 (TPT)Regular prayer and time with God nourish the deep joy that comes from knowing Him.
Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for the gift of joy. Help us recognise the many blessings You have placed in our lives.
Teach us to focus on Your goodness even when circumstances feel difficult. Fill our hearts with the joy that comes from knowing You and trusting Your promises.
May Your Spirit continue to grow the fruit of joy within us so that we can share Your light with others.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
Activation
Take a moment today to pause and reflect on three blessings in your life.
Thank God for each one.
Then ask yourself: How can I share joy with someone else today?
It might be through a kind word, a message of encouragement, or simply sharing gratitude for something God has done.
Small moments of joy can brighten someone else’s day.
If this message encouraged you, please consider sharing it with someone who may need a reminder of God’s joy today.
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God bless you and your family.
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When Success Pulls Us Away from God: Finding Our Way Back Through Grace
Many of us think the hardest seasons of life are the most dangerous for our faith.
But surprisingly, it is often the seasons of comfort, success, and prosperity that quietly pull us away from God.
When life is going well, we can slowly drift. Our prayers become less frequent. Our dependence on God fades. And before we realise it, our hearts have wandered.
Yet the beautiful truth of the Gospel is this: even when we drift away, God never stops pursuing us.
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The Hidden Danger of Prosperity
As Christians, we often assume that trials and suffering are the greatest threats to our faith.
But prosperity can sometimes be even more dangerous.
When life is comfortable, we may begin to rely on temporary things;, such as our income, status, possessions, intelligence, relationships, or environment.
These things can create a false sense of security. When everything appears stable, we may stop seeking God as intentionally as we once did.
Prayer becomes less urgent. Time with God becomes less frequent. Slowly, we may begin drifting away.
Israel’s Example
Throughout the Old Testament, we see this pattern repeatedly in the story of Israel.
When God rescued them and provided for them during hardship, they sought Him passionately.
But when life became comfortable and prosperous, they often forgot the very God who had saved them and turned toward idols instead.
Human nature has not changed much since then.
A Personal Season of Drifting
Not long ago, I experienced my own season of drifting.
I allowed myself to become deeply offended by members of my church congregation. Instead of dealing with the hurt, I withdrew completely. I refused to attend church and even influenced my husband to stop going as well.
I knew God was there, but I stubbornly refused to turn toward Him.
The only thing I continued doing was praying for my children each night.
Before long, I found myself exploring New Age practices and Buddhism, searching for comfort, strength, and answers in places that ultimately offered none.
When the World’s Promises Fall Short
Five years later, my life looked successful on the outside.
We had a higher income, a bigger house, a nicer car, and a lifestyle that appeared impressive.
But inside, I was deeply unhappy.
We were heavily in debt. My husband and I argued constantly. I became a workaholic, believing my value came from what I produced and owned.
I trusted no one.
My marriage was falling apart. Eventually we separated, sold everything, and paid off our debts.
It is astonishing how quickly a life can unravel when we move away from God.
Grace That Never Gives Up
Thankfully, my husband Peter never gave up on me.
Over time we began repairing our relationship. I asked him for forgiveness, and he graciously gave it. We began speaking honestly with each other in ways we never had before.
We made a commitment that no matter how difficult things became, divorce would no longer be an option.
Slowly, we rebuilt our marriage.
And through it all, God never abandoned me either.
The God Who Searches for Us
I know with absolute certainty that this passage is true:
“If a man has a hundred sheep, and one of them has gone astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountains and go in search of the one that went astray?”
Matthew 18:12–14Even when we wander, God comes looking for us.
He pursues us with relentless love.
The Moment That Brought Me Back
Several years later, the near death of my grandson became a turning point in my life.
God does not cause tragedy. But He used that painful moment to awaken my heart and draw me back to Him.
When I finally turned toward God again, He welcomed me exactly like the father in the story of the prodigal son.
… “But when he was still a great way off, his father saw him and had compassion, and ran and fell on his neck and kissed him.”
Luke 15:20 (NASB)That is the heart of our Father.
When we return, He does not shame us. He runs toward us.
Restoring the Lost Years
Since returning to God, my faith has grown stronger than ever before.
My husband and I are closer than we have ever been. Our relationship is deeper, more honest, and more loving.
And I have seen God begin restoring the years that were lost.
“So I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten…”
Joel 2:25 (ESV)God truly does redeem what seems broken.
The latter years really can become sweeter than the former ones.
An Invitation to Return
If you have wandered away from God, please know this:
He still loves you.
Turning back to Him is simpler than you may think. Speak honestly with Him. Ask for forgiveness. Invite Him back into your life.
Like the father in the prodigal son story, God will run toward you.
He will meet you more than halfway.
Growing Strong Again
If you have recently returned to God, I encourage you to nurture that relationship.
Spend time reading Scripture, especially the Gospels, where we see the heart of the Father revealed.
Make time daily for prayer and worship.
And find a church community where you can grow, be encouraged, and walk alongside others in faith.
Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You that Your love never gives up on us, even when we wander far from You.
Thank You for pursuing us with grace and welcoming us home with open arms.
Help us remain close to You in every season. In times of hardship and in times of abundance.
Restore what has been lost and strengthen our faith as we walk with You each day.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
Activation
Take a quiet moment today to reflect on your relationship with God.
Ask yourself:
Have I drifted away in any area of my life?
If the answer is yes, simply turn back toward Him.
Speak honestly to God and invite Him to renew your heart.
Remember, it is never too late to return.
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Right now is always the best time to begin.
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Keep Going When Life Gets Hard: Fixing Our Eyes on Jesus
Life has a way of bringing moments that test our strength and our faith. At times we may feel like giving up, especially when the path forward seems difficult or uncertain.
Yet sometimes the greatest lessons in perseverance come from the most unexpected teachers — children.
Their determination, resilience, and simple faith can remind us what it looks like to keep going, even when things feel hard.
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The Faith of a Child
People were bringing little children to Jesus for Him to place His hands on them, but the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, He was indignant. He said to them:
“Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. Truly I tell you, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.”
Mark 10:13–16 (NIV)Children have so much to teach us.
They are open, honest, hopeful, and determined. When they fall, they may cry for a moment, but they quickly get back up and try again.
They do not give up easily.
A Lesson in Perseverance
Many years ago, while we were on holiday, my six-year-old son and his cousin were happily swimming in the pool.
My four-year-old daughter could not swim yet.
Of course, the boys teased her a little. They swam to the deep end and called out in sing-song voices, “You can’t come here because you can’t swi-im!”
Her response came quickly and fiercely.
“I can too swim! And I will swim over there!”
She even poked her tongue out for emphasis.
Over the next few days she kept trying. Her arms flailed, her body sank, and she swallowed plenty of water. Her Pa and I had to rescue her several times.
After coughing and spluttering, she would look up at me, wrinkle her nose, and say with a big smile:
“I’m swimming good, aren’t I mummy?”
And I would encourage her, telling her how much she was improving.
Within a couple of days she was swimming, and eventually she became an even stronger swimmer than her older brother.
She persevered with joy, even while she was struggling.
Perseverance in Our Faith
My daughter’s determination reminds me of something important about our spiritual journey.
Perseverance means continuing forward despite discouragement, difficulty, or previous failure.
The Bible reminds us:
“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love Him.”
James 1:12 (AMP)Whether we are facing hardship or celebrating blessings, we can continue to trust that God is good and that He is with us in every season.
Running the Race with Endurance
In the past, I wandered away from God for a time. It is something I never want to risk again.
Now I want to persevere like my daughter did, even when life feels like I am struggling to stay afloat.
Scripture encourages us:
“Let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.”
Hebrews 12:1–2 (NIV)We are surrounded by a great cloud of witnesses, saints, angels, and even the people around us who watch how we live.
The way we respond to both good times and difficult seasons speaks volumes about the God we serve.
Our lives can either point people toward Him or push them away.
Fixing Our Eyes on Jesus
So how do we persevere when life becomes difficult?
We remember that the things of this world are temporary.
We focus our hearts on Jesus and the promises of God.
We spend time reading His Word.
We pray and meditate on Scripture.
We worship and thank Him for His faithfulness.“Since you have been raised to new life with Christ, set your sights on the realities of heaven… Think about the things of heaven, not the things of earth.”
Colossians 3:1–2 (NLT)When we praise God, even quietly at first, something begins to change inside us.
Our faith grows stronger. Our perspective shifts. Darkness begins to lift because God inhabits the praises of His people.
“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it.”
John 1:5
Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for walking with us through every season of life. When we feel tired or discouraged, help us keep our eyes fixed on Jesus.
Give us perseverance when challenges arise and remind us that You are always with us.
Strengthen our faith so that we may continue running the race You have set before us.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
Activation
Take a moment today to reflect on an area of your life where you feel discouraged or tempted to give up.
Bring it before God in prayer.
Then choose one simple way to draw closer to Him today, perhaps reading a passage of Scripture, worshipping with a song, or thanking Him for His faithfulness.
Small steps of faith can renew our strength.
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God bless you and your family.
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The Power of Godly Friendships: How the People Around You Shape Your Character
The people we spend time with quietly shape the direction of our lives.
Their attitudes influence our thinking, their values affect our decisions, and their habits can become our own.But what if the friendships we build today are also shaping our faith, character, and future?
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We Naturally Reflect the People Around Us
Have you ever noticed that when you smile at a baby, they smile back?
It is a beautiful example of how humans naturally imitate behaviour. From the earliest stages of life, we mirror the attitudes, expressions, and actions of those around us.
There is a famous Spanish proverb that says:
“Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are.”
Sometimes it is also said this way:
“Show me your friends and I will show you your future.”
The people we spend time with have a profound effect on our thoughts, values, and actions. They help create the culture in which we learn, grow, and make decisions.
That is why it is so important to surround ourselves with people of integrity and good character.
Become wise by walking with the wise; hang out with fools and watch your life fall to pieces.
Proverbs 13:20 (MSG)
Choosing Friendships That Build Us Up
It is worth asking ourselves some honest questions:
Are our friends people we admire and want to learn from?
Do they encourage us to grow in wisdom, kindness, and faith?
Or are we spending time with people who treat us poorly, damage our self-esteem, or draw us into attitudes and behaviours we later regret?
Scripture gives us a clear warning:
Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”
1 Corinthians 15:33 (NIV)This doesn’t mean we avoid people who don’t yet know Jesus. In fact, we are called to love and reach them. But we must be careful about who influences our hearts most deeply.
Our Greatest Friend: Jesus
When we think about friendship, we must begin with the most faithful friend we will ever have — Jesus.
Jesus is the perfect example of love, loyalty, and sacrifice. He never abandons us, never belittles us, and never breaks His promises. Instead, He walks with us, advocates for us, and calls us into the life we were created to live.
Jesus even calls us His friends.
My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.
John 15:12-14,16-17 (ESV)
Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.
You are my friends if you do what I command.
You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last.Through Jesus we are welcomed into the family of God, adopted by our heavenly Father, and invited into a relationship that transforms every part of our lives.
What an incredible friend we have.
Are We a Good Friend to Others?
Friendship is not only about who influences us, it is also about how we influence others.
Are we the kind of friend who listens, supports, and encourages?
Do we help others grow, or do we unknowingly contribute to their struggles?
Scripture encourages us to intentionally build one another up.
Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing.
1 Thessalonians 5:11 (ESV)A good friend celebrates victories, stands beside people in difficult seasons, and speaks truth with love when it is needed.
Reflecting the Character of Christ
As followers of Jesus, we are called to reflect His character in our friendships.
Do we honour those around us?
Are we willing to pray for our friends?
Do we gently share our faith when the opportunity arises?
Do our lives display the fruit of the Spirit?
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.
Galatians 5:22-23 (NASB)When these qualities are visible in our lives, our friendships become powerful opportunities to demonstrate God’s love.
Thermometer or Thermostat?
Bill Johnson asks a powerful question:
Are we thermometers or thermostats?
A thermometer simply reflects the temperature of the room. It reacts to the environment.
A thermostat, however, sets the temperature.
In the same way, we can either reflect the attitudes and behaviours around us, or we can bring the culture of God’s kingdom into every room we enter.
Jesus calls us to be people who influence the atmosphere with faith, love, and truth.
Growing in Wisdom and Spiritual Strength
If this message challenges you, that may simply be the Holy Spirit inviting you to grow.
Spend time in God’s Word. Proverbs, Psalms, and the Gospels are wonderful places to start. The Bible is a guide for living a wise and meaningful life.
Worship God. Sit quietly in His presence. Ask the Holy Spirit to transform your thinking and guide your steps.
He is faithful to lead us.
Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for the gift of friendship and community.
Help me to surround myself with people who encourage wisdom, faith, and godly character.Lord, teach me to be the kind of friend who builds others up. Fill my life with the fruit of Your Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
Help me reflect the character of Jesus in every relationship. May my life bring encouragement, truth, and hope to those around me.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Activation
Take a few quiet moments to reflect on these questions:
• Who are the people influencing my life the most right now?
• Are these relationships drawing me closer to God or further away from Him?
• How can I intentionally encourage and strengthen the friends God has placed in my life?
• Is there someone today who might benefit from a message of encouragement, prayer, or kindness?Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you in building friendships that honour God and bless others.
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I’d love to hear who you are surrounding yourself with. Please share your story in the comments below.
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Finding Peace When Life Feels Overwhelming: Giving Your Burdens to God
Have you ever felt like life is piling responsibilities on your shoulders faster than you can carry them?
Between family, work, relationships, home responsibilities, and ministry, it can sometimes feel like we are trying to hold the entire world together. When pressures build, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and exhausted.
But Jesus offers us something extraordinary, rest for our souls.
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When Life Feels Too Heavy
Many of us carry a long list of roles every day:
Spouse.
Parent.
Grandparent.
Child.
Sibling.
Friend.
Employee.And that’s just the beginning.
At home we often become the cook, cleaner, gardener, nurse, accountant, counsellor, diplomat, and sometimes even the problem solver for everyone around us.
Then, when unexpected crises arise, the weight can feel unbearable. At times we may feel like we are drowning under the pressure.
If we try to carry all of these burdens in our own strength, it is only natural that we will eventually become weary and run down.
When we are exhausted, our emotions can become frayed. Stress begins to affect our thinking and our judgment. We may find ourselves saying things like:
“I can’t do this.”
“It’s too much.”
“It’s not fair.”Sometimes we may even slip back into old habits or negative thinking patterns.
The Power of What We Focus On
Kris Vallotton once said something very challenging:
Complaints are to the devil what praise and worship are to God.
If God inhabits our praises, we may need to ask ourselves an honest question:
Who are we inviting into the room when we complain?
This doesn’t mean we ignore our struggles. God invites us to bring our burdens to Him, honestly and openly.
Jesus Understands Our Struggles
We serve a merciful God.
He sent His Son, Jesus, to walk this earth fully as a man. Jesus understands the difficulties of human life. He knows what it feels like to be tired, pressured, and overwhelmed.
And He gives us this beautiful invitation:
“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Matthew 11:28–30 (NKJV)
Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.”
Learning to Truly Let Go
A few years ago, I walked through a very challenging season.
Pressure seemed to be coming from every direction — work, home, finances, and relationships. I was desperately trying to control every situation in my own strength, but nothing was working.
Eventually, I reached the end of myself.
That was when I cried out to God and admitted something important:
“I can’t do this.”
I told Him I was handing my burdens to Him.
Now, I had prayed before and asked God to help me with my concerns. But if I’m honest, I usually took them back again later and carried them myself.
This time was different.
I was done trying to control everything.
I surrendered it all to God and decided I would simply keep putting one foot in front of the other, doing what I needed to do each day while listening for His direction.
I chose to finally abide in Him.
The Exchange: Burdens for Peace
Almost immediately, something remarkable happened.
A deep sense of calm and peace filled my heart. The anxiety that had been weighing on me began to lift. The lies of the enemy lost their power.
Life didn’t suddenly become perfect. Challenges still existed.
But my heart was steady. My faith was immovable.
I knew God had taken my burdens.
Interestingly, the very situations I had worried so much about never even happened.
Bill Johnson describes this beautifully. He says there is a divine exchange:
Our burdens for God’s peace that surpasses understanding.
As he puts it, it’s a very good bargain, completely in our favor.
I like to say: “No backsies.”
Once we give our burdens to God, we should resist the temptation to take them back again.
Guarding Our Hearts
Jesus reminds us of something very important:
“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”
Matthew 6:21 (AMP)Whatever we focus on becomes the centre of our hearts.
If we constantly focus on problems, anxiety grows. But when we focus on God’s faithfulness, peace begins to take root.
We must learn to resist thoughts that create doubt and fear, and instead place our trust in God’s promises.
Peace Through Faith in Christ
The peace that God offers is available to every believer.
Scripture tells us:
“Therefore, since we have been justified through faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.”
Romans 5:1–2 (NIV)If you have never accepted Jesus as your Lord and Saviour, it is a simple yet profound step of faith.
“If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”
Romans 10:9–10 (NIV)If you have just made that decision, congratulations! You have begun an incredible journey with a loving God who will never leave you or forsake you.
I encourage you to read the Bible, connect with a local church, and grow in fellowship with other believers.
You will never have to walk through life alone again.
Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for inviting us to bring our burdens to You. Forgive us for the times we try to carry everything in our own strength.
Lord, help us to surrender our worries, fears, and pressures into Your hands. Fill our hearts with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
Teach us to trust You more deeply each day and to rest in Your presence.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
Activation
Take a moment today to pause and reflect.
What burdens are you carrying right now?
Write them down or speak them out loud to God in prayer. Then consciously surrender them to Him.
Imagine placing those concerns into God’s hands and leaving them there.
Each time worry tries to return, remind yourself:
“I’ve already given this to God. No backsies.”
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Out of the mouths of babes
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Young children have such a unique way of seeing things and it’s so delightful. They are honest and transparent. They haven’t learned to hide what they are thinking.
Recently, my grandchildren suffered the loss of their old dog. This has evoked strong curiosity and a veritable onslaught of questions and statements about God and heaven.
Our grandson starts with saying “I miss Benny” and follows up with either a statement or a question. This past Wednesday he said “You know Nanny, when you are in heaven you have to stay in the white bits, not the blue bits”. This peaked my curiosity, because I could not understand what he meant. On questioning he pointed to the sky and said “If you go in the blue bits you will fall through” – meaning if you venture out of the clouds into the blue sky, you will plummet to earth. Well, wasn’t that just precious! I said “Is that so?” Apparently, he learned this important fact from a cartoon.
Another comment I am hearing over and over is “God lives in me Nanny”, followed by a glorious smile. I always respond with “Yes, he does.” This warms my heart and gives me such unimaginable joy.
It is a great blessing to be a grandparent and it is also a great responsibility. The Bible states clearly that we are to take our obligation seriously:
Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.
Deuteronomy 4:9 [NIV]Often, we are unaware of the great influence we have over our children and grandchildren’s lives. It is wise to consider the foundations we are laying for this generation, and the next. As well as how that will affect the thousand generations that follow.
Therefore know that the Lord your God, He is God, the faithful God who keeps covenant and mercy for a thousand generations with those who love Him and keep His commandments;
Deuteronomy 7:9 [NKJV]I love this quote, but, perhaps add grandparented to this:
One hundred years from now, it won’t matter what kind of car I drove, what kind of house I lived in, how much money I had in the bank, nor what my clothes looked like,
Forest Witcraft
BUT,
The world may be a little better because, I was important in the life of a child.We have the privilege and honour of leading our children and grandchildren to Jesus and I believe this is our sacred duty. Sylvia Schroeder writes that the geneologies in the bible attest to the faithfulness of parents and grandparents sharing the testimony of Jesus with their family and friends. I love the beautiful picture painted by the following verse about a grandmother’s strong faith being passed down through the generations:
That precious memory triggers another: your honest faith—and what a rich faith it is, handed down from your grandmother Lois to your mother Eunice, and now to you! And the special gift of ministry you received when I laid hands on you and prayed—keep that ablaze! God doesn’t want us to be shy with his gifts, but bold and loving and sensible.
2 Timothy 1:5 (MSG)But how do we do this? Firstly, we need to demonstrate the love, joy, goodness, truth, peace and mercy of God in all our interactions with them and the world. When we are living a good Christian life with Jesus at the centre, our words and even more so our actions, carry a spirit of authenticity and truth.
We need to spend time with our children and grandchildren. We need to know them and help them through any troubles they are encountering. We listen, we play, we read to them. We take them to parks and play games with them. We are fun. We answer their questions. We introduce them to Jesus. We look for the treasures Father God placed inside of them and we declare this over them. We tell them that God loves them, and we do too. It is not a burden; it is a joy.
Some of us may not have children or grandchildren, however this needn’t stop us blessing the next generation. Our lovely Pastor, Crystal Midson spoke about this during our Mother’s Day service a couple of years ago. Recognising we have many families in our church without grandparents, or without them nearby, she suggested that mature women and men in our church consider becoming involved in those families as grandparent figures. This arrangement would benefit both the family and the mature adult.
Another idea is to become involved in children’s, youth, women’s and men’s ministries to bless the next generation. Really the possibilities are endless.
When I consider Moses did not commence his ministry until he was 80 years old it gives me great hope. You are never too old to co-labour with Jesus and benefit those around you.
What spiritual inheritance are we going to leave our families? What will our legacy be to our community and 1000 generations?
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- References:
- Sylvia Schroeder, Bible Study Tools, What Does the Bible Say about Grandparents and How They Are Blessings? – Topical Studies (biblestudytools.com)
- Bible Gateway, https://www.biblegateway.com
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Embracing God’s Goodness in Daily Life
Photo by Lee Pigott on Unsplash Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.
Psalm 107:1 (NIV)It never ceases to amaze me how good our God is. Our Father is perfect. He is goodness itself. He is so outrageously good, that we cannot over-exaggerate His virtues. As humans, we find it impossible to imagine the depths of His goodness. No evil can exist in His presence. Therefore, there is nothing less than good in Him. And He never changes.
This verse in James is so beautiful:
Every gift God freely gives us is good and perfect, streaming down from the Father of lights, who shines from the heavens with no hidden shadow or darkness and is never subject to change.
James 1:17 (NLT)When I take the time to meditate on the goodness of God. His solid, unchanging faithfulness, peace and joy fill my heart.
You are good, and what you do is good; teach me your decrees.
Psalm 119:68 (NIV)We are God’s representatives on this earth. Our greatest desire is for our children, their husbands and wife and our grandchildren to know and love Jesus. If the people around us don’t see the goodness of God flowing out of us, when will they ever arouse the desire to know Him?
Astonishingly, the bible tells us we can change and become more Christ like. Jesus only did what he saw the Father do. If we read the gospels we will see the love, compassion, truth, mercy, service and sacrifice with which Jesus lived.
Knowing how Jesus lived is an excellent model of how we also can live. However, this is head knowledge. Limited to theory. Many people know a lot about the bible and Jesus and yet fail to put any of this information into action. Transferring the insights gained from the bible into a faith filled, loving, merciful life where we serve others is something else entirely.
Spending time with our Lord and saviour in our quiet place is invaluable. This is where we bask in His presence and learn to know His voice. In this place we gain discernment to recognise what is from Him, sounds like Him, and agrees with His word.
Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Romans 12:2 (NIV)My husband Peter and I pray for this transformation of our minds daily. It goes something like this:
Today God, continue to transform our minds and make them more Christ like. We are your sheep and know your voice. Today, make us so sensitive to the urgings and nudgings of the Holy Spirit, that we will be aware of when a thought comes from you, our own selfish desires, or the evil one. We will toss out anything that is not of you, holding every thought captive unto you, and obediently follow your direction, in Jesus name.
Over time, God has been doing a mighty work in us. He has changed the way we think, which affects the way we act. We walk to the beat of a different drum. The heart of the Father. We constantly look at how we can be a blessing to those around us – family, friends, neighbours and strangers.
Before our day starts we will pray to the Lord and ask Him how we can co-labour with him. While we are out shopping, we look for opportunities to bless people with care and kindness. Noticing the person cleaning the food mall and thanking them for their work and how it makes the area pleasant to eat in. We may ask permission to pray for someone if we feel called to, or they relay a need. While travelling to work we pray over our workplaces that whoever may enter that day would feel the presence of God and that we would be a light in the darkness.
We have gone from insecurity in sharing Jesus with the world, to Godly confidence and anticipation to see how He is moving that day. The first time we prayed for a stranger we were nervous. However, God is good. He does all the work. We just have to be willing to step out of our comfort zone and initiate the conversation. We experience great joy when we work with Jesus. We do not force ourselves upon others, or shout from street corners. Being someone who turns people from God is definitely not our aim. We pray that Jesus will highlight someone to us and specifically follow His lead. We don’t embarrass people or interrupt businesses.
A major part of learning how to step out in faith in a respectful and courteous way, has been learned through the teachings we have received while attending School of Faith (School of Faith). They are a supernatural school of ministry based on the teachings of Bethel Supernatural School of Ministry in Redding, California.
We have learned that if we want to get closer to God, we need to spend time with Him. We need to be intentional each day to take the time to grow in faith.
Then He said to His disciples, “The harvest truly is [indeed] plentiful, but the workers are few. So pray to the Lord of the harvest to send out workers into His harvest.”
Matthew 9:37-38 (AMP)We need to practice our faith, not just read about it. The world is hungry for Jesus. How are they going to meet Him if we are unwilling to share?
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Understanding Godly Peace: Beyond Worldly Views
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Peace. What is it really? In the world, peace is seen as the absence of conflict, a state of harmony and tranquility. Some people see peace as a time in the future, when they retire and no longer have to work. Alternatively, some see peace as everyone agreeing with them.
This would mean that peace in the world relies on others and other countries behaving in a certain way. Or the absence of both responsibility and differing opinions.
However, what is Godly peace? The Hebrew word translated into English as peace in the Old Testament is shalom which means:
- To be complete or to be sound.
- To be whole or to live well.
- Right relationship and harmony between two parties or people.
- Prosperity, success or fulfillment.
- Victory over one’s enemies or absence of war.1
In the New Testament the Hebrew word eirene is translated into peace:
- A state of national tranquility
- Peace between individuals
- Security, safety, prosperity, felicity, etc.2
These all sound good and most people would desire them in their lives and their countries. However, our world is imperfect, and life is not always serene. What does Jesus say?
Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
John 14:27 (NIV)3The way Jesus speaks here about peace is the same as what Moses said before he passed away. This also mirrors what God said to Joshua prior to taking the promised land.4 This peace we’ve been gifted includes strength and courage.
In the bible it says that God is peace.
So Gideon built an altar to the Lord there and called it The Lord Is Peace. It is still in Ophrah of the Abiezrites today.
Judges 6:24 (CSB)5God’s peace doesn’t mean our life will be without troubles. It means we will be able to cling to Him, knowing that He is with us and will help us through. He is with us in the storm. When life is chaotic, like a cyclone or hurricane whirling around, imagine being in the eye of the storm with God. Quiet, calm and safe at the centre where nothing can touch us. We are complete with Him and need not worry. We can remain focused on Jesus, regardless of what is happening in the natural.
When we accept Jesus as our Lord and Saviour the Holy Spirit comes and resides in us. As we obey God and follow Jesus, we become more like Him. The fruit of the spirit is the evidence in our lives that we have a relationship with God and the Holy Spirit is dwelling in us. So how do we cultivate this fruit called peace? We build our relationship with God by spending time with Him. We read and meditate on His word. We praise and worship Him. We obey Him. We serve Him and others. We fellowship.
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Gratitude: Embracing God’s Goodness in Daily Life
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Thanksgiving is being grateful to God for what He has done. In the Old Testament, King David engaged Levites to celebrate Yahweh and offer up constant thanksgiving, praise and worship. Gratitude can be a way of life. We can be grateful to God in small and in large things. I love this verse about thankfulness:
Let joy be your continual feast. Make your life a prayer. And in the midst of everything be always giving thanks for this is God’s perfect plan for you in Christ Jesus.
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (TPT)Remembering what the Lord has done for us is a great way to anchor ourselves during the storms of life. I’ve heard Pastors Bill Johnson, Kris Vallotton and Dylan Van der Merwe all preach on this subject.
When the whole nation had finished crossing the Jordan, the Lord said to Joshua, “Choose twelve men from among the people, one from each tribe, and tell them to take up twelve stones from the middle of the Jordan, from right where the priests are standing, and carry them over with you and put them down at the place where you stay tonight”.
So, Joshua called together the twelve men he had appointed from the Israelites, one from each tribe, and said to them, “Go over before the ark of the Lord your God into the middle of the Jordan. Each of you is to take up a stone on his shoulder, according to the number of the tribes of the Israelites, to serve as a sign among you. In the future, when your children ask you, ‘What do these stones mean?’ tell them that the flow of the Jordan was cut off before the ark of the covenant of the Lord. When it crossed the Jordan, the waters of the Jordan were cut off. These stones are to be a memorial to the people of Israel forever.
Joshua 4:1-7 (NIV)So why did God command this?
These stones were to be reminders of God’s goodness and served as a sign of His provision and to teach generations of Israelites about the event when God gave passage across the Jordan. There are more reminders in the bible. The Passover serves to recall the miracles God performed and the exodus from Egypt. Additionally, the Lord’s Supper is a reminder of Jesus’ death and resurrection and reassurance of his return.
There are many reminders in the bible of the goodness of God. We need only read them to bring them to mind. They can lift our spirits and bless us. They will change the atmosphere to one of hope, joy and praise.
Keeping a record of what God has done for us personally as individuals is a wonderful way to recall His blessings. When I think of all the ways I have been blessed by the Lord, it nearly brings me to tears.
My loving father has been with me always. From before I was born, He was with me and loved me. He blessed me with good parents who loved and cared for me. They made sure I was fed, clothed and received a good education. They took me to church and instilled a strong work ethic in me, as well as a sense of fun.
I have been gifted with my beloved husband who has never faltered in his love for me in 32 years. I have been rewarded with 3 lovely children, their partners and 6 grandchildren, not to mention another on the way.
I am healthy and well and I am employed in good purposeful work that I enjoy. I belong to a close and loving extended family and have great friends and neighbours. I am also a member of a powerful church family and a couple of fellowship groups.
God has provided well for us, with a nice house in a friendly neighbourhood and two reliable cars. We have food on the table and can pay our bills.
Years ago, when I turned my face from God and walked away, He never gave up on me. He wooed me back into His light and love and redeemed me.
Last year he provided a miracle, and our granddaughter was born healthy and well, despite the dire predictions of the medical profession. Two and a half years ago, when my grandson was diagnosed with meningitis, he returned home within a week with no signs of any issue. Although he requires speech therapy now, that is a minor inconvenience compared with the outcome they were expecting. Four years ago, when my other grandson was on life support in the Queensland Children’s Hospital, God kept him alive, and he is a happy and healthy boy today.
If we journal all the wonderful things God has done in our lives we can meditate on each of them. When we read and re-read all the ways he has blessed us on a regular basis, it builds our faith and hope. Praise rises up in us and we experience enormous gratitude and joy. It reminds us that God is good, He cares and is with us always. We are not abandoned.
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