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Vengeance
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In this world, when we have been wronged, we are encouraged to cancel someone, or fight back. To get even. To let everyone know what has happened.
Occasionally dreadful things do happen and I am not downplaying this. I am not recommending you put yourself in harms way.
However, when we see ourselves as a victim, whether knowingly or not, we surround ourselves with people who support our view. We ignore or avoid anyone who might suggest reconciliation or an alternative perspective. We end up in a thought bubble of our own making, where we see the other as irredeemable, and we lash out at anyone who suggests anything to the contrary.
We want others to agree with us and we persecute the other party. We dwell on what has occurred and every time we describe what happened we pour fuel on the fire of our anguish and pain. If cultivated, anguish turns to anger which smoulders and burns. In time anger twists into hatred and hatred into bitterness. The desire to exact vengeance and see the other suffer rises and greater destruction can ensue.
Paul wrote:
Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil. [and] Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Ephesians 4:26-27 & 31-32 (ESV)Even the world knows letting go of resentment and grudges leads to:
Healthier relationships.
Mayo Clinic
Improved mental health.
Less anxiety, stress and hostility.
Fewer symptoms of depression.
Lower blood pressure.
A stronger immune system.
Improved heart health.
Improved self-esteem.When we believe the lie that we are victims and give up our right as Christians to live victoriously, we make ourselves vulnerable. We open a door to the forces of darkness, and they will walk in, take up residence and ravage our lives.
If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you. But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins.
Matthew 6:14-15 (NLT)We have free will. We have a choice in how we respond to what happens to us. If we choose unforgiveness and vengeance we put ourselves on a difficult path. The fruits of which are rotten and decaying. We must remember we are not judge, jury and executioner. Do we align ourselves with Jesus who told us to love one another as he has loved us and to forgive? Or do we fall prey to the enemy and end up slaves to a master who will torment us and destroy us?
Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.
Romans 12:19 (NLT)My hope for you is freedom, liberty, light and life. Do not chain yourself to vengeance and wrath. If you are struggling with this, consider speaking to your pastor, consulting the bible and seeking help from a professional.
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References:
- What Does the Bible Say About Unforgiveness? (openbible.info)
- Ephesians 4:26-32 ESV – Be angry and do not sin; do not let the – Bible Gateway
- Forgiveness: Letting go of grudges and bitterness – Mayo Clinic
- Matthew 6:14-15 NLT – “If you forgive those who sin against – Bible Gateway
- Romans 12:19 NIV – Do not take revenge, my dear friends, – Bible Gateway
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Reconcile for peace
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Why is it so hard to apologise? To admit we regret doing something wrong and acted in error. The definition of apologise is:
to tell someone that you are sorry for having done something that has caused problems or unhappiness
Cambridge DictionaryAn apology is an admission of guilt, of wrong-doing. Unfortunately, I have struggled with this time and time again. I would love to be Christlike in every aspect of my life, however, I am still a work in progress. The truth is occasionally I have suffered with the false belief that I am correct, and others are wrong. This has happened when arguing over ridiculous things i.e.: which way is North; or quarrelling over chores to the point that it led to a breakdown in relationship with the people I love. As you can see, this stance, or heart position has the potential to lead to much conflict and brokenness. At its root it is self-righteousness, the sin of pride.
We would do well to heed what Jesus said:
To some who were confident of their own righteousness and looked down on everyone else, Jesus told this parable: “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood by himself and prayed: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people—robbers, evildoers, adulterers—or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of all I get.’
Luke 18:9-14 (NIV)
“But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, ‘God, have mercy on me, a sinner.’
“I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home justified before God. For all those who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”I was recently convicted of self-righteousness and directed to make amends. When the Holy Spirit convicts us, He does so gently, and puts a sense of purpose in us and the ability to carry it out. This is the polar opposite of condemnation which causes guilt and shame. The easiest way to explain the difference is, conviction is about something we’ve done, which can be dealt with by repentance (change the way we think and act) and asking for forgiveness, whereas condemnation is about who we are, deceiving us into believing we are broken and irreparable.
Jesus gave us clear instructions of what to do when we have caused offense:
So if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.
Matthew 5:23-24 (ESV)When we ask for forgiveness we place ourselves in a vulnerable position and may be concerned about embarrassing ourselves and how the other party will react. Interestingly, when I prayed about it and walked it out, I was surprised by the response of the aggrieved parties. One person said, “oh don’t worry about that it’s all in the past.” The other person wasn’t worried about what had happened and admitted their part in the conflict. It seems God led me to say sorry because I was being affected by what had happened. It was holding me back, not them. The lesson in humility was something I needed and helped me to grow in an area I was weak in. What I gained was right standing with God and an enormous sense of relief and peace. I don’t want to risk losing my peace again.
If you have offended or upset others by self-righteousness, I recommend you consider talking to the Holy Spirit about it. If He urges you to make amends and the other person/s won’t be hurt by revisiting it, pray and ask for guidance about how and when to reconcile with them. I have found atoning for my sins doesn’t take anything away from me, except guilt and shame – useless baggage I had been carrying around for a long time. It releases liberty to the captives, peace and joy. It grows humility, builds trust and paves the way for better relationships with people.
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The birth of our saviour
https://www.freepik.com/free-vector/silhouette-nativity-scene-night_11186448.htm#query=christian%20christmas&position=0&from_view=keyword&track=ais&uuid=b7174c8b-c51f-4c4d-b9fa-e9f00e19b8a7 During the Christmas season many of us get caught up in the busyness, partying and preparation for a great celebration. We look for the perfect gift, decorate our homes, plan lavish meals, and invite loved ones to the feast.
At this time, do we slow down and consider what we are preparing for and what our expectations are? Perhaps it is time to contemplate what our loving God has done for us and is offering us today?
For unto us a Child is born,
Isaiah 9:6 (NKJV)
Unto us a Son is given;
And the government will be upon His shoulder.
And His name will be called
Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.Our good God sent His only son in human form to be born of a virgin in a lowly stable. The hope of the world, Jesus, Emmanuel came and lived among us and demonstrated the Father’s love to us. He walked in humility, love, peace, mercy and power among us.
The great creator of the universe made us in His image. He gave us free will to either choose to live in relationship with Him or not.
My hope for you this Christmas, is that you see how good God is and how much He loves you and wants an intimate relationship with you. It’s surprisingly easy to welcome God into our life. We can come before God, repent (change our thinking and actions), ask for forgiveness and accept Jesus as our Lord and Saviour.
To grow in our relationship with God we spend time reading the bible, praying, praising and worshipping Him. It’s also important to fellowship with other Christians, so we seek out and join a church. I can testify that nothing I have ever encountered compares with the loving embrace of God.
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References:
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah%209%3A6&version=NKJV
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Setting the Captives Free: How Jesus Breaks the Power of Hidden StrongholdsHe sets the captives free
Sometimes the greatest battles we face are the ones no one else can see… but Jesus sees, and He longs to set us free.
Recognising the Patterns in Our Lives
Many of us carry struggles we quietly battle behind the scenes.
When we take a step back and look over months, years, even decades, we can begin to see patterns forming. Areas where we feel stuck. Areas where we return again and again, hoping for a different outcome.
At times, we know something isn’t right, yet we “can’t see the forest for the trees.” In those moments, we may need the wisdom of a trusted friend or even professional support to help us see clearly.
These struggles can take many forms:
- Alcohol or drugs, promising comfort but never satisfying
- Overeating, hoping food will fill a deeper need
- Gossip or judgment, trying to elevate ourselves
- Gambling, chasing a solution that never comes
- Overspending, believing possessions will soothe our souls
- The need to be needed, to avoid being alone
- Perfectionism or competitiveness, striving to feel worthy
All of these can quietly become false gods—things we turn to instead of God Himself.
Yet none of them can give what only God can provide:
true peace, lasting joy, deep love, and real freedom.
When Old Struggles Return
Recently, an old tormentor resurfaced in my life.
Many years ago, I was diagnosed with an eating disorder. Over the past 45 years, I’ve experienced seasons of struggle and seasons of victory. In recent years, I truly believed I had been healed, that it was behind me.
But after a bout of illness, it returned.
Old habits can come back with surprising force when given even a small opportunity. What once seemed defeated can suddenly feel overwhelming again.
For me, binging became a daily battle. One that felt impossible to overcome in my own strength.
The Turning Point
I wrestled daily… and often gave in.
Eventually, I opened up to a trusted, godly friend. She prayed for me, and I was grateful. But initially, little seemed to change.
I began to wonder:
Had God abandoned me?
Was I too broken to be fixed?I felt defeated. Bruised. A failure.
But in my desperation, I cried out to the Lord and He gently revealed something to me.
Not with condemnation… but with loving conviction.
I had been ignoring His promptings.
I had chosen instant comfort over true healing.
I had turned to coping by binging instead of turning to Him.
A Spiritual Wake-Up Call
It became clear that I had allowed something back into my life that didn’t belong there.
And not only that—it had grown.
As Scripture says:
“Now when the unclean spirit comes out of a person, it passes through waterless places seeking rest, and does not find it. Then it says, ‘I will return to my house from which I came’; and when it comes, it finds it unoccupied, swept, and put in order. Then it goes and brings along with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they come in and live there; and the last condition of that person becomes worse than the first…”
Matthew 12:43–45 (NASB)It was humbling to realise this had been happening right in front of me… and I hadn’t fully seen it.
But once I did, everything changed.
Choosing Freedom
I made a decision.
I submitted to God, repented (changed my thinking and direction), and took authority over what had crept back in.
I asked for His help and committed to listening to the Holy Spirit.
The very next day, I found myself standing in a shop, holding the very food I had been struggling with.
I paused.
I asked the Holy Spirit for help.
And clearly, gently, He said:
“Put it back and walk out.”The battle in my mind lasted less than 30 seconds.
This time… I obeyed.
Freedom Is Closer Than You Think
What had once felt powerful and impossible to defeat… suddenly wasn’t.
Because I wasn’t fighting alone.
God is strong where we are weak.
From that moment, something shifted. Each day since, it has become easier. The peace and joy of the Lord have returned.
When we:
- Keep our eyes on Jesus
- Stay close to the Holy Spirit
- Walk in obedience
…we are transformed.
And we are set free.
As Jesus declared:
“The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me,
Luke 4:18–19 (NKJV)
Because He has anointed Me
To preach the gospel to the poor;
He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted,
To proclaim liberty to the captives
And recovery of sight to the blind,
To set at liberty those who are oppressed;
To proclaim the acceptable year of the Lord.”
An Invitation to Freedom
Today, I gently invite you to reflect:
Is there something in your life
a pattern, a habit, a behaviour
that is weighing you down?Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal it to you.
And if He does:
- Bring it to Jesus
- Turn away from it
- Ask for His help
He will guide you.
He will strengthen you.
He will comfort you.And I promise you this…
Freedom is closer and simpler than you think.
🙏 Prayer
Lord,
Thank You that You came to set the captives free.
You see every hidden struggle and every silent battle.
Today, I surrender anything in my life that is not from You.
Reveal what needs to change, and give me the strength to follow You.
Holy Spirit, guide me, comfort me, and help me walk in freedom.
Restore Your peace and joy within me.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
🌿 Activation
Take a quiet moment today and ask:
“Holy Spirit, is there anything in my life that is holding me captive?”
Write down what comes to mind.
Then take one simple step of obedience today—just one.Freedom often begins with a single, surrendered step.
Right now is always the best time to begin.
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Listening with Love: How Being Fully Present Reflects Christ in Everyday Life
In a noisy, distracted world, one of the most powerful ways we can show love is simply to stop… and truly listen.
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Are We Really Listening?
How good are we at hearing?
When people speak to us, are we truly listening, or are we distracted?
Are we thinking about our to-do list?
What we’re having for dinner?
Or perhaps drifting off to something else entirely?Sometimes, without even realising it, we may begin to measure people, deciding who is “worthy” of our time and attention.
But Jesus never did that.
Jesus Saw and Valued Everyone
Jesus stopped. He listened. He cared.
He spoke with the Pharisee, the tax collector, and the leper alike. Both those respected and those rejected.
As he was going into a village, ten men who had leprosy met him. They stood at a distance and called out in a loud voice, “Jesus, Master, have pity on us!”
When he saw them, he said, “Go, show yourselves to the priests.” And as they went, they were cleansed.
Luke 17:12–14 (NIV)Jesus noticed people others overlooked.
He heard the cries others ignored.And He responded with compassion.
The Subtle Ways We Tune Out
In our everyday lives, it can be easy to unintentionally send the message:
“I’m not really listening.”
- Looking past someone while they’re speaking
- Checking our phone mid-conversation
- Rushing them to finish
- Interrupting or finishing their sentences
- Waiting for our turn to speak rather than truly hearing
Sometimes we listen to respond, not to understand.
But Scripture gently guides us:
Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger;
James 1:19 (ESV)
Listening Is an Act of Love
Listening is more than hearing words, it is an act of love.
When we truly listen:
- We honour the person speaking
- We gain understanding
- We create connection
- We help others process their thoughts and feelings
As the question has been asked: “How do we wear our love?”
One powerful way is by giving someone our full attention.
Listening to Children Matters Deeply
How we listen to children matters just as much, if not more.
Do we rush them?
Finish their sentences?
Or dismiss their attempts to communicate?Or do we lean in?
Children are learning their value in these moments.
When we listen, we tell them:
“You matter.”
“I see you.”
“I care about what you have to say.”Even simple moments, like being present at the playground, encouraging them as they try something new, can build confidence and courage.
When we hold hope for them, they feel it.
And that hope helps them rise.
Every Act of Attention Matters
Nothing we do in love goes unnoticed by God.
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’
Matthew 25:40 (NIV)When we listen, encourage, and care, especially for the vulnerable, we are serving Jesus Himself.
What a beautiful truth.
A Gentle Invitation
Today, let’s slow down.
Let’s put aside distractions.
Let’s look people in the eye.
Let’s listen, not just to respond, but to understand.Because sometimes the greatest gift we can give someone… is our presence.
Prayer
Heavenly Father,
Thank You for the way You listen to me with love, patience, and understanding.
Help me to reflect that same heart toward others.Teach me to slow down, to be present, and to truly listen.
Remove distractions and soften my heart so I can honour those around me.Help me to show Your love in the way I give my attention.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Activation
Today, choose one conversation where you will:
- Put your phone away
- Maintain eye contact
- Listen without interrupting
- Ask a thoughtful follow-up question
Let the person speaking feel fully seen and heard.
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Right now is always the best time to begin.
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Sources:
What Does the Bible Say About Listening? (openbible.info)
Luke 17:11-14 NIV – Jesus Heals Ten Men With Leprosy – Now – Bible Gateway
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Small Acts, Big Impact: How Simple Kindness Can Change Lives
Even the smallest act of kindness can change someone’s day — and sometimes even their life. When we allow God to work through our everyday actions, we bring His love into the world in powerful ways.
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Sometimes when we consider the tragedies, injustices, and overwhelming needs in this world, we may feel discouraged. There are so many problems that it can seem impossible for one person to make a difference. Even if we wanted to help, where would we begin?
Yet just like the well-known song by Paul Kelly reminds us, “From little things big things grow.”
Small things truly can make a difference.
The simple acts we carry out each day, kindness, generosity, prayer, and encouragement, can bring a little piece of heaven to earth.
When we joyfully give our time, attention, and resources to others, we carry God’s love and presence into their lives.
One person gives freely, yet gains even more;
Proverbs 11:24–25 (NIV)
another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.
A generous person will prosper;
whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.
Small Moments That Carry Great Impact
On our daily commute we might pass people walking, running, or waiting for a bus. My friend Kim calls it a “drive-by prayer bombing.” As we pass by, we quietly pray a blessing over them.
They may never know we prayed.
But heaven does.And who knows what difference that prayer may make in their day?
When we are out shopping, we can take notice of the people around us, the shop assistants, cleaners, trolley collectors, and fellow shoppers.
Offering someone our full attention, making eye contact, smiling, and wishing them a good day costs nothing, yet it can brighten someone’s entire day.
We can be patient in queues.
We can be polite, courteous, and kind.
Bringing Light Into Everyday Work
At work, we can show genuine interest in our colleagues. Simply asking someone how they are and truly listening, shows that they are seen and valued.
We can work well as a team, share a laugh together, and encourage those around us.
Kindness in the workplace creates an atmosphere where people feel respected and supported.
When someone is going through a difficult time, we can offer to pray for them. Like Jesus, we can spend time with the lonely, the hurting, and those who feel overlooked by society.
Meeting Practical Needs
Sometimes love is expressed in practical ways.
If someone is struggling financially, we might bring them a meal or a bag of groceries. We may be able to offer financial support or volunteer with our church’s outreach to the poor.
Across the world, many people lack even the basic necessities needed for survival. If we are in a position to sponsor a child, we can change not only their life, but the life of their family and community.
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Give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.
Luke 6:38 (ESV)
Being the Hands and Feet of Jesus
When we give with a generous heart, we become the hands and feet of Jesus in this world.
Through small acts of kindness and generosity, we can bring love, hope, peace, and joy into the lives of others.
And that is something truly worth pursuing.
Prayer
Lord,
Thank You for the opportunity to be Your hands and feet in this world. Help us not to overlook the small opportunities You place in front of us each day.
Give us generous hearts, attentive eyes, and willing hands. Show us how to bring kindness, encouragement, and practical help to those around us.
May our everyday actions reflect Your love and bring light into the lives of others.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
Activation
Today, ask God to show you one small act of kindness you can do for someone.
It might be:
• Praying for someone you pass during your day
• Encouraging a colleague or friend
• Smiling and speaking kindly to someone who seems unnoticed
• Helping someone in a practical way
• Giving to someone in needRemember: small acts done with great love can change lives.
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God bless you and your family
Right now is always the best time to begin.
Related Scriptures:
- Proverbs 11:24-25
- Luke 6:38
References:
- Paul Kelly – From little things big things grow.
- https://www.biblegateway.com
- What Does the Bible Say About Giving Generously? (openbible.info)
- https://www.compassion.com
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Stop Living Small: Embrace the Dreams God Placed in Your Heart
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Have you been living smaller than God intended? Fear, self-doubt, and disappointment can keep us from stepping into the dreams He placed in our hearts. Discover how to overcome self-limiting beliefs, trust God’s promises, and take one brave step toward your God-given purpose and destiny.
Never doubt God’s mighty power to work in you and accomplish all this. He will achieve infinitely more than your greatest request, your most unbelievable dream, and exceed your wildest imagination! He will outdo them all, for his miraculous power constantly energizes you.
Ephesians 4:20 (TPT)Have we believed the lie that humility means shrinking back from the big dreams God has placed in us? That a small, safe life is all we should expect? That we don’t have what it takes, or don’t deserve anything more than what we already have? That somehow our destiny is not truly in God’s hands?
If so, we’ve been deceived.
For with God nothing shall be impossible.
Luke 1:37 (KJV)If God places something clearly from Him in our hearts, do we believe it’s possible? Or have we quietly held back from entering into the unique purpose He has placed within us?
I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.
Philippians 4:13 (NASB)God may have graced us with evangelism, teaching, prophesying, pastoring, or even the calling of an apostle (someone sent by God with a message). Perhaps we’re called to missions, to prayer, to hospitality, to intercession, to worship, to serve, to create, to encourage, or to bring healing. Maybe we carry gifts of faith, wisdom, knowledge, discernment, tongues, or interpretation of tongues.
Every one of these gifts is needed to build up the body of Christ on the earth.
Yet sometimes we hesitate to put up our hand. We avoid volunteering. We shrink back from trying. We feel overwhelmed, unqualified, or afraid of rejection.
Fear is often the quiet driver of this mindset.
But fear was never meant to lead us.
We see “through a mirror dimly.” We may not fully understand how our calling fits into God’s plans. We may struggle to see how our small obedience matters. But God’s perspective is eternal. He is outside of time and space. His view is the macro of all macros. He is the Creator of the universe, and yet He invites us to co-labour with Him to bring about His good will on the earth.
You do not have, because you do not ask. You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.
James 4:2–3 (ESV)With God’s creativity, power, and strength, anything is possible. We are His sons and daughters. He delights in seeing us thrive in our calling. He longs for us to step into our destiny, not striving, but partnering with Him.
If we feel weak or incapable, we only need to open our Bibles. God chose David, a shepherd boy. He chose Peter, a fisherman. Again and again, He uses ordinary people to accomplish extraordinary things.
As we draw close to the Holy Spirit, He strengthens, emboldens, and gently guides our next step. If God is asking us to move forward, He will be strong where we are weak.
It may be simpler than we think.
Sometimes we imagine stepping into our calling requires a dramatic leap: a platform, a title, a perfect plan. But more often than not, it begins quietly. A whisper of obedience. A gentle yes in our spirit. A willingness to trust God more than our fear.
God is not asking us to strive. He is inviting us to trust.
He does not reveal the entire roadmap at once. Instead, He offers light for the next step. When we move toward Him in faith, even trembling faith, He meets us there. Courage grows in motion. Confidence follows obedience.
The question is not, “Am I capable?”
The question is, “Am I willing?”We do not step into destiny because we feel ready.
We step forward because we believe He is faithful.And that changes everything.God is not asking you to live small.
He is inviting you to live surrendered, and bold.I hope this encouragement blesses you. If it has, please feel free to share it with someone who needs hope today. I would love to hear what God is doing in your life. If you would like to subscribe or leave a testimony, please use the section below.
Prayer
Father God, forgive us for believing we must live small. Help us release fear and trust the dreams You have planted within us. Give us courage to take one step forward in faith today. Strengthen us where we feel weak, and remind us that nothing is impossible with You. Amen.
Activation – One Brave Step
Take five quiet minutes today and ask the Lord this simple question:
“What dream have I laid down because of fear?”
Write down whatever comes to mind, even if it feels small, unrealistic, or long-forgotten.
Then ask:
“What is one small, practical step I can take toward this with You?”
Not the whole plan.
Not the five-year strategy.
Just one step.Commit to taking that step within the next seven days.
You don’t need complete confidence.
You only need willingness.God supplies the strength as we move.
References:
The Passion Translation
Luke 1:37 KJV – For with God nothing shall be – Bible Gateway
Philippians 4:13 NASB – I can do all things through Him who – Bible Gateway
James 4:2-3 ESV – You desire and do not have, so you – Bible Gateway
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Teach Us to Pray: Growing Closer to God Through Daily Prayer
Have you ever wondered if you are praying “the right way”?
The disciples walked closely with Jesus, witnessing His miracles and teachings, yet there was only one thing they specifically asked Him to teach them: how to pray.Prayer is far more than words spoken into the air. It is an invitation into deep relationship with our loving Father a conversation that transforms our hearts and draws us closer to God each day.
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Prayer: The Heart of Our Relationship with God
Prayer is the cornerstone of the Christian life. It is the precious time we spend with our loving Father and one of the most powerful ways we deepen our relationship with Him.
Scripture reminds us:
“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
1 Thessalonians 5:16–18 (NASB)Prayer is not meant to be an occasional activity reserved for emergencies. It is meant to be a continual conversation with God throughout our day.
Creating Space for Prayer
Many of us develop rhythms or routines around prayer.
We may pray at certain times of the day or week. Some of us have favourite prayers we repeat or particular places where we feel especially close to God. Perhaps we pray at home, in church, or outdoors in nature.
Prayer can happen in the quiet moments of life:
• while washing the dishes
• during a morning walk
• in the car while driving
• while enjoying a shower
• with friends, family, or even strangersPrayer does not need to be complicated. It can be as natural as talking with a trusted friend.
Learning from the Example of Jesus
Jesus demonstrated a lifestyle of prayer and constant communion with His Father.
The Gospels tell us that He would often withdraw to quiet, isolated places to pray. Even in the midst of ministry, crowds, and miracles, Jesus made time to connect with God.
His example shows us that prayer is not simply a religious duty — it is an invitation into relationship.
When we pray, we may:
• quiet ourselves and listen for God’s voice
• meditate on Scripture
• bring our concerns and needs to Him
• worship and give thanks
• ask for wisdom in how to respond to others
• pray for people facing physical, emotional, relational, or financial struggles
• pray in the Spirit or speak in tonguesAll prayer draws us closer to God.
Trusting God’s Wisdom
Sometimes when we pray, we come with our own expectations about how God should answer.
We may already have a plan in mind for how the situation should be resolved and how quickly it should happen. But prayer invites us into something deeper, trusting God’s wisdom above our own.
Scripture reminds us:
“Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us…”
Ephesians 3:20–21 (NIV)God’s understanding of every situation far exceeds our own. His plans are greater, His timing is perfect, and His solutions often surprise us.
When we surrender our concerns to Him, we release the burden of worry and receive His peace and strength.
“Lord, Teach Us to Pray”
The disciples witnessed many extraordinary things during Jesus’ ministry. They saw miracles, healings, and powerful teachings.
Yet there is only one recorded instance where they specifically asked Jesus to teach them something.
They asked Him how to pray.
“Now it came to pass, as He was praying in a certain place, when He ceased, that one of His disciples said to Him, ‘Lord, teach us to pray…’”
Luke 11:1 (NKJV)Jesus responded by giving them what we now know as the Lord’s Prayer:
Our Father in heaven,
Luke 11:2–4 (NKJV)
Hallowed be Your name.
Your kingdom come.
Your will be done
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us day by day our daily bread.
And forgive us our sins,
For we also forgive everyone who is indebted to us.
And do not lead us into temptation,
But deliver us from the evil one.This prayer invites heaven into our earthly circumstances and aligns our hearts with God’s will.
Releasing Our Burdens to God
When we pray, we call heaven’s perspective into earthly situations. We trust God to bring His wisdom, healing, and solutions.
Instead of trying to control the outcome, we place the situation in His hands.
God already understands every detail — even before we ask.
When we surrender our concerns to Him, something remarkable happens:
our worry lifts, peace replaces anxiety, and we gain renewed strength to continue.
A Lifestyle of Prayer
I encourage you to speak with God at every opportunity throughout the day.
The more time we spend in His presence, the more we experience His love, peace, and joy, and the more we can share that with the world around us.
Prayer
Loving Father,
Thank You for the gift of prayer and for inviting us into close relationship with You.
Teach us to come to You with open hearts — listening as well as speaking, trusting as well as asking.
Help us quiet our minds and become more aware of Your presence throughout the day.
Align our hearts with Your will and give us the grace to release control, knowing that You see every detail far more clearly than we ever could.
May our prayers draw us into deeper intimacy with You, filling us with Your peace, love, and joy.
Strengthen our faith as we trust You with the how and the when, confident that You are always working for good.
We commit ourselves and those we pray for into Your loving hands.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
Activation
Before you move on with your day, take a quiet moment to pause.
Slow your breathing. Become aware of God’s presence and simply speak to Him as you would a close friend.
You might ask:
“Lord, what would You like to show me today?”
Then sit quietly for a moment, trusting that He is near and listening.
May you be wrapped in God’s peace today and gently reminded that He is always near, listening, and at work in every detail of your life.
I encourage you to listen to the song “Talking to Jesus” by Elevation Worship and Maverick City. There is a link below.
If this message has blessed you, please consider sharing it with someone who may need encouragement today.
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God bless you and your family.
Right now is always the best time to begin.
References:
- 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NASB1995 – Rejoice always; pray without ceasing; – Bible Gateway
- Ephesians 3:20-21 NIV – Now to him who is able to do – Bible Gateway
- Luke 11:1-4 NKJV – The Model Prayer – Now it came to pass, – Bible Gateway
- What Does the Bible Say About Praying? (openbible.info)
- (40) Talking To Jesus | Elevation Worship & Maverick City – YouTube
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Working with Kingdom impact: Bringing God’s Presence Into Your Workplace
For many of us, a large portion of our lives is spent at work. Yet we don’t always think of our workplace as a place where God can move powerfully.
But what if our everyday work, our conversations, our integrity, and our attitude, could become a powerful expression of God’s Kingdom?
Every interaction we have with colleagues, clients, and customers is an opportunity to reflect His goodness and bring His presence into the world around us.
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Our work can become a powerful place of Kingdom influence. In this episode, we explore how our attitude, integrity, and leadership can bring God’s presence into our workplaces and businesses.
Our Everyday Influence
As Christians, we have the opportunity to shine God’s goodness everywhere we go. Our sphere of influence includes our family, neighbours, friends, coworkers, clients, and the wider community around us.
Many people demonstrate the goodness of God simply through the way they live, their integrity, their compassion, their work ethic, and their kindness.
Our behaviour, our speech, and the way we interact with the world can become a powerful witness for Christ.
“Taste and see that the Lord is good. Oh, the joys of those who take refuge in Him!”
Psalm 34:8 (NLT)When others “taste” our lives, they should experience something of Him.
Our Attitude Toward Work
It’s often easy to be loving, responsible, and gracious in the areas of life we cherish most, our family, friends, church, and home.
But what about our work?
Do we show up with a positive, willing heart?
Or do we treat work like an inconvenience?
Do we dream of escape more than impact?
Are we a blessing to our colleagues, clients, and workplace, or do we become a storm cloud that others try to avoid?
Our attitude at work can reveal more about the Kingdom of God than any sermon we preach.
Scripture reminds us:
“Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ… Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not people.”
Ephesians 6:5–8 (NIV)This reminds us that our true Boss is Christ. Whether our work is paid or unpaid, it can become an act of worship.
If You Run a Business
If you own a business, your leadership carries enormous Kingdom impact.
Ask yourself:
Do I treat my staff with fairness and honour?
Is my workplace safe, encouraging, and life-giving?
Am I creating opportunities for others to thrive, not just myself?
Do my employees see integrity, humility, and honesty in me?
Does my business bless my employees and their families?
Do my business practices reflect godly principles?“Masters, give your bondservants what is just and fair, knowing that you also have a Master in heaven.”
Colossians 4:1 (NKJV)Your business can be a ministry, not only through what you sell, but through the way you love and lead people.
Integrity in the Marketplace
Our witness is strengthened or weakened by the way we handle money, decisions, and responsibilities.
“Better is a little with righteousness than great income gained with injustice.”
Proverbs 16:8 (AMP)Are we honest with our finances?
Ethical with our accounting?
Generous toward competitors?
Respectful with creditors?
Kind with customers?
The Kingdom of God is built on integrity.
The Gift of Work
Having work, or even the ability to work, is a blessing. It provides an opportunity to bring God’s love into everyday interactions.
If you do not enjoy your job, you are always free to seek new opportunities, develop new skills, or explore different paths.
But while you are there:
Honour your contract.
Work the hours you agreed to.
Choose a good attitude.
Ask God how you can bring blessing into your workplace.And if you run your own business?
Ask God for creative and innovative ideas. He loves partnering with you.
Identity Reminder
Perhaps work has been difficult lately.
Maybe you feel drained, discouraged, or overwhelmed. Maybe you have even wondered if God still sees you.
Let this be a gentle reminder today:
You are not forgotten.
You are not alone.
You are not an orphan.You are a child of the living God, carrying His presence wherever you go.
Prayer
Father,
Thank You for the gift of work and the privilege of carrying Your Kingdom into the everyday moments of our lives.
Teach us to serve wholeheartedly with joy, integrity, and compassion.
Help us see our workplaces and businesses through Your eyes, as places of influence, purpose, and ministry.
Strengthen us where we feel weary.
Renew us where we have grown discouraged.Remind us daily that we are Your beloved children — never alone and never forgotten.
Use our lives to shine Your goodness to everyone we meet.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Activation
This week, ask the Holy Spirit:
“How can I bring Your Kingdom into my workplace or business today?”
Then pause and listen.
He may prompt you to:
encourage a coworker
show patience toward someone difficult
pray silently for your workplace
practice integrity in a challenging moment
bless someone anonymously
shift your attitude from surviving to servingSmall acts of obedience can create powerful Kingdom ripples.
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God bless you and your family.
Right now is always the best time to begin.
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Discipling Children and Grandchildren with Love: Raising the Next Generation for God
Parenting and grandparenting are among the greatest privileges God gives us. Yet they can also be some of the most challenging responsibilities we will ever carry.
When our children or grandchildren behave in ways that concern us, our instinct is often to correct them quickly. We hope our words will guide them toward better choices. Sometimes they do. Sometimes they don’t.
In those moments, it helps to remember something important: raising children is not only about correcting behaviour — it is about shaping hearts.
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None of Us Are Perfect Parents
I truly wish I could say I have been a perfect parent and grandparent. Never losing my temper and never regretting anything I said or failed to do.
But that simply isn’t my story.
Every parent and grandparent learns along the way. We grow, we adjust, and sometimes we must apologize.
The Bible reminds us of the responsibility we carry:
“Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Proverbs 22:6 (ESV)This verse is both an encouragement and a reminder that our influence matters deeply.
When Children Struggle
Some children face additional challenges.
If you are raising or supporting a neurodiverse child, perhaps one on the autism spectrum, a child with special needs, or a child with high energy and ADHD, daily life can feel particularly demanding.
In these situations, correction can easily become constant. Both the adult and the child may experience frustration and discouragement.
Parents or grandparents may feel disheartened when their guidance does not bring the expected response. Sometimes discipline becomes more severe in an attempt to force obedience.
Meanwhile, the child may begin to believe there is something wrong with them.
The Bible offers wise guidance here:
“Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.”
Colossians 3:21 (ESV)God’s heart is always to guide, not to crush.
The Power of Our Words
Children are precious gifts from God, and childhood passes far more quickly than we realise.
The words we speak over our children and grandchildren can echo in their hearts for many years.
Many of us can still remember harsh comments spoken to us when we were young. Those words sometimes leave marks that take years to heal.
Scripture reminds us how powerful our words are:
“The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit.”
Proverbs 18:21 (NIV)Our words can lift up or tear down. They can encourage confidence or plant seeds of doubt.
As parents and grandparents, we carry enormous influence in shaping how our children see themselves.
Discipline Means Discipleship
The word discipline in the Bible shares the same root as the word disciple, meaning student or learner.
Discipline is not primarily about punishment or enforcing compliance. Instead, it is about teaching, guiding, and helping a child grow in wisdom and character.
We can provide instruction, boundaries, and loving correction. But ultimately, every person must choose for themselves whether to follow God’s ways.
Even God does not force His will upon us. He invites us into relationship.
When we fall short, He does not abandon us. Instead, He welcomes us back with grace and forgiveness.
How wonderful it would be if our children experienced that same kind of grace in our homes.
Leading by Example
One of the most powerful ways we disciple children is through our own example.
When we:
- admit when we are wrong
- apologize when we lose patience
- show kindness and compassion
- listen to them with care
- spend time playing and talking with them
we teach them what godly character looks like in everyday life.
Children learn far more from what we do than from what we say.
Our lives become the lesson.
Encouragement for Parents and Grandparents
Parenting can be exhausting.
The hours are long. The responsibility is constant. And sometimes it feels like we are getting everything wrong.
But take heart, you are not alone.
God sees your efforts, your prayers, and your desire to raise children well.
If you find yourself struggling with patience or emotional overwhelm, reach out for help. Talk with a trusted friend, family member, or pastor.
In Australia, Parent Line (1300 301 300) offers support and guidance for parents who need encouragement. There may be similar support services in your country.
And if you see another parent struggling, consider offering gentle support. Sometimes a listening ear or a helping hand can make all the difference.
There is wisdom in the saying:
“It takes a village to raise a child.”
Grandparents, in particular, hold a unique and powerful role in shaping the next generation.
Prayer
Father,
Thank You for the precious gift of children and grandchildren.
Give us wisdom as we guide them, patience when challenges arise, and grace when we fall short. Help us speak words that bring life, encouragement, and hope into their hearts.
Teach us to model Your love through our actions, our attitudes, and our character.
May our homes be places where children feel valued, safe, and deeply loved.
Use our influence to lead the next generation closer to You.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
Activation
Take a moment today to reflect on one way you can encourage a child or grandchild in your life.
Perhaps you could:
- speak a word of affirmation
- spend uninterrupted time with them
- listen carefully to something important to them
- pray for them and with them
Small moments of connection often become lifelong memories.
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Your encouragement could be exactly what someone else needs to hear.
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God bless you and your family.
Right now is always the right time to start.
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